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What working as a hospice nurse is like

An honour, and sometimes emotional experience
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Registered Nurse Tarah Dionne (inset), the patient care coordinator at the Doug and Fran MacDonald 91原创 Hospice, said working with people in their final days is both an honour and an emotional experience. (Special to 91原创 Advance Times)

Tarah Dionne will never forget listening to an accomplished pianist play his last song.

Dionne, a registered nurse and the patient care coordinator at the Doug and Fran MacDonald 91原创 Hospice, choked up for a moment when she described how the man, a patient at the hospice residence, would play the piano at the facility over this past Christmas season, filling the space with beautiful music.

鈥淲hile he was still well enough, he would play for us, and it was just the most moving, touching experience,鈥 Dionne told the 91原创 Advance Times.

鈥淎s he was progressing in his disease, he knew that he couldn鈥檛 continue to play, so he played one last song for us, and it was very emotional for everybody.鈥

Dionne called the moment 鈥渟omething very, very special, and, you know, we felt very privileged that we got to experience that with him and his two family members that were there.鈥

It is an honour, and often an emotional experience, to work with patients in hospice, Dionne said.

鈥淧alliative care, hospice care, has a comfort-based model, really focusing on the patient and their family and comfort. If you get to spend time with people, you get to learn really neat things about them,鈥 Dionne explained.

鈥淚f patients are there for a while, we generally get the chance to get to know them pretty well. We鈥檙e trying to make their last days as comfortable and meaningful as possible.鈥

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Dionne, a Willowbrook resident, initially decided to pursue nursing because she wanted a career 鈥渨here I felt like I was helping people, but I also wanted variety, and I didn鈥檛 want to get necessarily stuck or pigeonholed at a young age, because I originally had no idea what I wanted to do.鈥

She found the answer, early in her career, working in a medical palliative unit.

鈥淗ospice has always kind of pulled at my heartstrings [ever since],鈥 Dionne commented.

鈥淚 have experienced a lot of death in my personal life. I鈥檝e probably experienced more than the average 39-year-old. All four of my grandparents [have passed]. I鈥檝e lost aunts, I鈥檝e lost friends, I鈥檝e lost an ex. I鈥檝e lost people to cancer, I鈥檝e lost people to suicide.鈥

When Dionne looked into nursing, one attraction was the many different options within the profession, including many outside hospitals, operating rooms, intensive care units and ERs.

鈥淩eally, it just felt like endless opportunities.鈥

Such as: working in schools, correctional centres, addiction treatment facilities and psychiatric facilities, in occupational and public health positions, as educators, and as midwives.

Nurses can specialize in working with children, with adolescents, adults and the geriatric population, high acuity patients (acutely ill adults with multiple health challenges), people in rehab, and in medical daycare.

鈥淵ou can work at home with people doing home care, you can work in long-term care, you can work from home on the phone, you can work in a community setting like a hospice,鈥 Dionne added.

Because there weren鈥檛 many openings for palliative care nurses when she was starting out, Dionne 鈥渧eered鈥 into internal medicine for several years before finding her back to hospice care, and said that experience has proven to be valuable in her hospice work.

Her specialty tends to be a lifetime commitment, she has noticed.

鈥淧eople that find their way into hospice palliative care, if it鈥檚 their true niche, they tend to stay there and they don鈥檛 leave until they retire.鈥

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